Why the ignored messages?

Okay...so im sure alot of people have the same irritation as I do about the ignored messages we all get here and there. The only problem is that I cannot undersrand the motive or a reason behind it. U mean, I get the situations where the person on the other side is in a time cruch or is in a situation when he/she isnt able to answere right away, but to be ignored completely is just plain rude. I consider myself to be a fairly open minded and understanding person , so why cant I even grasp the idea behing the whole thing?
Okay, let me clear it up a little.
Imagine yourself talking to a person, texting or im-ing and everything is going fine, you exchange a few messages, get to a scertain point in your conversation and then...the person you were talking just stops replying. Not for an hour or two ( though even that would be a bit rude...I mean , was the thing you decided to do all of a sudden SO important that you couldnt even say "gtg ttyl"? or just anything that would indicate that you're going away for a while? ) but for a whole day or three at times. Why is it so hard to say that youvhave to go and say your goodbyes for the day? Are you really that busy or swamped with other obligations that you have no time at all to say youre going away? Are yiur fingers going to fall off by any chance if you do that? No...I dont think so. Did we really become so lazy , self obsessed and  rude to think that if we do that we might seem dependent or reliable or even NICE?!? I mean we treat that like its bad to be nice to others, like its bad to show our respect to people that we like (in ANY way).  The current society standard for someone cool is really dark and primal even. Since when did it become popular to cuss and insult someone that should get your respect if not because the person is older but then because the person never did anything bad to you.
I kniw im drifting off the subject a bit here hut just bare with me...
And as if the people that behave like that isnt enough, now we have a whole army of followers that support that kind of behavior.
When did we all become so mad at everyone?
I get it...these are hard times, and its normal that after a period of time the negativity piles up and a person has no other choice but to let it out, but sadly enough often times the ones that get caught in the fire are children , friends or family and even teachers or co-workers and even ordinary people that were just passing you by. Though whats worse is that we do realize that they arent to blame, but we make up excuses that it couldnt be helped or that it just came out or that its not your fault that the victim of your rage outburst was in the wrong place at the wrong time. We make up so much excuses to make ourselves feel better and not feel so guilty cause god forbid you apologize to that person....that is just crazy!
Well no, whats crazy is what we are doing right now. Doing all the wrong things and taking all the wrong steps without thinking that youre setting an example for other people and younger generations that by nature tend to look up to us and even imitate what we do or how we act. Im not saying we become hippies with crystal necklaces and all that stuff...but just take notice of how youre acting and how Its affecting the people around you. We say that the future is in our children and that they need to carry on with what we've built over the course of our lives but quite frankly...im beginning to think I might not like for our " future" to take over. The way things are going , in about 10 years we wont be going forward progressibg in numerous fields of science , art  etc but rather backwards.
So...what is the answere to the ignored messages? Well...I guess it could be that by the way we are evolving and sculpting our young ones, not only did we become self obsessed and think that we are too good to be bothered with such little things as respect or being nice to each other, but we are also teaching the same behavior patterns to people around us and in turn creating millions of hooligans and kids with no future. As funny as that may sound, its true.

Hi there!

A little introduction is in order

Hello there! In the recent past i have started to wonder and think alot about why and what makes scertain people tick or life itself.
And befire i knew it,i felt the urge to talk to someone about it. Only problem was,there was no one to talk to about it....see ,my town or country for that matter is a bit patriotic and closed minded about alot of things. However i do have to admit that in a way i admire them for being ok with life as it is. Myself on the other hand cannot be okay with a life that doesnt fulfill me and i was never good with going along with the ride as i rot away slowly without having the feeling that im actually living it. So here i sit,in front of my pc writing this blog that im sure no one will ever read,but thats okay
 Rhis is merely my personal outlet for this process that goes on in my head and trying to find some answeres to the millions of questions i have. And here goes nothing....